We need to be more then friends

So I have this "friend". I have known him since high school but really didn't get to know him till about the end of my senior year. We exchanged numbers and began to text and stuff and talk on myspace(this was when myspace was the place to be). Well anyway we kept in touch up until I met my son's father when I cut off all male connect. But, last year around this time we started back talking again on facebook we would message each other and text and stuff. Then we started hanging out at his house. After that one thing would lead to another....and well you know what happened ; ).  Well this has been going on for a while and I would love to to be more then "friends" but things he like thing just the way they are. That would be cool and all if I wasn't attracted to him.  On my check list for my perfect guy he has all the qualities he's a Christian, he has a  good job and working towards a career, he is very attractive with great hygiene, he is family oriented, and wants a family of his own some day. But what's the problem? We have great conversations and great ....you know what lol....but no change. (sigh) IDK maybe it is just me. But if he wasn't attracted to me he would hang out with me would he? I know what you are thinking but our relationship is not just sex. There is tons of times we talk and hang out and it not centered around that. Ummmm but only time will tell. Till next time bloggers!